I am! Thanks so much to the person who wrote to me.
I have been busy focusing on numerous material that has needed to be attended to. I have been under the weather again and today the sun is out, or it is in my bit of Devon and I am looking forward to Spring.
We commemorated my late Mum's birthday on Monday and on Valentine's Day it was a year since Mum passed away. There has been so much that Mum has missed, even now I find myself reminding myself to tell her something then I remember. I don't know if that will ever get easier or not, but all we can do is keep getting up, getting on and then repeating the process.
For those of you who are friends via Facebook will have seen a few photographs that I shared of Mum. There were some real beauties, of her as a baby, perhaps just a few weeks old, then through various stages of toddler hood and then into her childhood, up to about aged 9 or so. There are many more to scan and share, but I am sharing here my absolute favourite and apologies if you have seen it before, but I am sure you will agree Mum was a real cutie!
From the personal collection of Julie Goucher |
I had an email disaster last week, on Friday to be precise and whilst I am not superstitious, who really knows? I use Google for my emails. Then I can access anywhere. I routinely star emails that I need to come back to later. On Friday I noticed that there was 223 starred emails. So I selected all and moved them into another folder. Then I selected all again and deleted the lot. It was one of those moments when everything is in slow motion and try as you might you can not undo what has just happened. So if you have written to me and not received a reply your email was possibly one of those affected. Sorry about, and there are about ten people who I know I owed emails to and those names are safely on a rather long to do list, stored in Evernote.
"Normal" service to be resumed shortly.....
The remembering becomes wrapped in smiles as time goes on, not just tears..
ReplyDeleteIt's early days yet, for you and for me.. You with your Mum, me with my Dad, but it helps to talk about them, as well as to them.
As for the deleted emails, it pays to archive them now and then. I think most of us have had similar incidents over time. Take a deep breath and know you have plenty of company, Julie.
Julie
ReplyDeleteWe are with you in spirit and here ready to listen when you are able to share.
Such a lovely photo of your Mum.
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